How to Stay married

My wife and I are starting to write a book on marriage–title is simply “How to stay married”.

Don’t ask me why two people who did it all wrong should write such a book or why anyone would buy or read it–they probably won’t. But the process will keep us busy and be cathartic. I am an old fart that pretty much just swills coffee in the morning, rides a mower, messes with a little travel deal in Mexico, and listens to sports on the radio. So writing some things and thinking will improve my so-called life.


Our aim is to be real.

The approach is not to sentimentalize about our journey nor to simply tell our story.

My part is to write for men, and DKH for women–so a two for one deal.